I've been posting my thoughts about this past week's horrific event, here and there and helter skelter. Today I received an articulate and heartfelt email from an old friend, Stephen Crooks, and I wanted to share it here...
from Stephen Crooks FELIS < > :
the last time you took a bad fall, cut yourself in the toolroom, or
rapped your headbone in some big, stupid way? Maybe in a ball-field or a
car accident or somesuch? The impetus is to be very still, right?
Breath coming slow and shallow, feeling around for lingering damage or
dizziness, assessing the situation.
This horrid week has been so
much like that, a damaging, lacerating blow to the nation's midsection,
causing us to stop, hold our breath and examine the way we feel about
ourselves and each other. To assess the situation. At this time of
thoughtful sorrow and of sorrowful thought, I imagine that people should
be entitled to their own space, to work it all out for themselves; each
in their own way and time. People are hearing so much talk. I think,
"Who needs me running off at the mouth?"
But there I was a day or
so ago, listening to the President, declaring with grim determination
that assault rifles and handguns a 'threat to national security',
committing his energies to going 'door to door and getting the guns'.
Obama's tearful broadcast? Unfortunately, no. The face and voice was
that of fictional President Andrew Shephard, movingly portrayed by the
actor Michael Douglas in a movie made nearly twenty years ago. Draw your
Look, I understand what some people are saying,
how we should refrain from 'politicizing' this fathomless horror in
Newtown, this senseless loss of innocence and future and human promise,
this waterfall of tears. That we should put aside current events and
just pray, for both the victims and the survivors.
Of course we should. For all of about twenty silent seconds.
immediately, before our national shock can wear off to be replaced with
the next callous holiday-season headline, we should consider a nation
where budget trimming would allow the desperate and the mentally ill to
fall between the cracks of care until it's too late, that allows the
senseless proliferation of deadly weapons to go unchecked, that still
believes uniforms and badges and fear of punishment will keep bad people
from doing bad things. Godalmighty, I love and respect our policemen,
but do even they believe that anymore?
We yearn to punish the
guilty but can't, because the terrible demons that drove this unstable
young Connecticut man have already punished him to death. What's left to
us in this moment, without shame or hesitation, is to become a nation
of mourners, praying for the souls of the departed, praying for the
safety of our own children, praying for our nation. And praying for
peace of heart and clarity of thought.
Because in the next
moment, driven as always to either our worst or our best instincts, we
can become a nation of rage, or of mercy; of blind punishers or of
clear-eyed problem-solvers. A nation of grieving hindsight, or of
creative humanistic forethought.
Perhaps it's the primitive
bloodlust of human nature to look for the nearest rope and tree at a
time like this; to curl our lips around gutsy epithets like 'I hope this
so-and-so rots in Hell,' (despite the fact that this in the season of
Jesus and Mary and 'Mercy mild'). But it doesn't take guts to punish a
sick pathetic man any more than it takes guts to shoot a mad dog, does
You want to show guts? Puff up your collective chests, curl
those lips and talk tough to your elected representatives; tell them to
keep us safe from the prevalence of deadly weapons in the midst of our
families and communities. Talk tough to those who think that the way to
'fiscal responsibility' is by denying care to those teetering on the
hard edges of our society who need it. Show some real guts.
there is a tragic loss of life we are staggered and diminished,
behaving as if there are much, much less people left on the Earth; a
veritable hole in the population, causing the world itself to wobble on
its axis for the lesser weight of human souls. Although of course this
cannot be the case.
But I say we can behave as if it is; we can
take what we have left, all the few billion souls remaining, bind them
with our arms and hold them close to our hearts and never, ever let them
stray from our loving attention.
It's challenging to think this
way, and that's reason enough alone to do so: to consider those lost
terrorized schoolchildren just as we consider the lost terrorized young
man who slew them, their teachers and protectors, his own family. The
murderer and the murdered, all of them created equally perfect and full
of promise as you or me or any newborn child in a manger in Bethlehem, a
nursery in Waukegan or a doorstep in South Philadelphia, but gone from
our care, concern and community, from our binding arms, far too soon.
do we owe them? Them and all of the beloved lost children of our lives?
Ever in our thoughts, our words, our deeds, our philosophies and
politics and religions and societies; we owe them our best. Our best,
whatever meaning that word has for you. Through all of the new
opportunities of this coming new year, stacked high and gleaming before
us like unopened gifts, will we honor them by rising to it?